I hadn’t planned to blog today, but after the last two days, I decided I wanted to share a post out of the archives with you. I first posted this musing on January 9, 2017. I have revised it slightly from the original.
How do we deal with hard times? Sometimes it seems as though ostriches, with their fabled “head in the sand” mentality, have it right. When the going gets tough, stick your head in the sand and hope things blow over.
First of all, that concept isn’t true. As National Geographic Kids points out, if they did that, they wouldn’t be able to breathe! The times they’re likely to look as though they have their heads in the sand are a) when they’re scrounging for food with their heads down, and b) when the females are turning their eggs, which are laid in holes in the ground.
So instead of hiding from reality, they’re really feeding themselves — building up their strength — and ensuring that the next generation is cared for. They’re showing heart and hope.
It turns out that ostriches ARE a good example to follow in hard times, just not for the reason we’ve always thought.
When hard times come, either personal difficulty, or social or national turmoil and uncertainty, it’s hard to do the things we know deep down are good things — it’s hard to keep on being strong, facing the problems, finding ways to deal with them AND it’s hard to keep on exercising our creativity.
It sounds like a platitude, and on one level it is, but we need to have heart and hope in the hard times.
We need to keep feeding our minds with good things (and our bodies as well). Seek out truth and true sources of information. Read things that build your understanding — of our world, of people, of your craft. Seek out people who can support you, and whom you can support, as you go through whatever lies ahead. We all need companions on the journey — no matter how introverted we are.
We need to find ways to build our strength — that’s our inner strength as well as our physical strength. Again, steeping ourselves in the wisdom of books that help us go deeper into truth; seeking out experiences that will open us to new ways of doing things; learning about other cultures; opening our hearts.
And we need to find ways to build our hope in the future, and to bolster others’ hope in that future. This can happen in big and small ways — as Mother Teresa said, “Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.”
Back in late 2016 and early 2017, many of my friends were finding small but truly great ways to make a difference in peoples’ lives and to show heart and give hope in the hard times — crocheting beanies for cancer patients, taking in rescue animals, teaching, creating theatre for kids, building little free libraries and little free pantries, working with #WeNeedDiverseBooks.
Those of us who are involved in creating children’s books (and indeed, books for all ages) need to remember that our gifts of strength and hope and heart and celebration of diversity through our writing are needed more now than ever. Keep on writing! Keep on creating! Keep on hearting and hoping!
The word courage comes from early Latin and French words for heart. From etymology online: “c. 1300, from Old French corage (12c., Modern French courage) “heart, innermost feelings; temper,” from Vulgar Latin *coraticum (source of Italian coraggio, Spanish coraje), from Latin cor “heart,” from PIE root *kerd- (1) “heart” (see heart (n.)) which remains a common metaphor for inner strength.”
Back as 2016 became 2017, my friend Marcie Colleen reminded a group I had been participating in of this wonderful, inspiring, heartening quotation:
“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow.’” – Mary Anne Radmacher
My Canadian political hero, Tommy Douglas, when faced with defeat, would quote an old poem that said, in part
I am hurt, but I am not slain,
I’ll lay me down and bleed a while,
And rise and fight again.
So, too, we may need to pause, recoup our resources, and deal with the pain. But then, we can take heart from words that Tommy Douglas also used to say:
“Courage, my friends, ’tis not too late to make a better world.”
That takes heart, and it takes hope. May we have them in abundance. May they buoy us all up in the hard times.
